You know what I'm sick to death of? People trying to make others guilty for not having seen this film, or read that book.
The effect it has on you is called FOMO - Fear Of Missing Out. And, as a concept, it's stupid as all hell.
Guess what? There are many centuries' worth of popular (and niche) culture to consume. No one has time to get through it all.
Dora Reads is the book blog of a Bookish Rebel, supporting the Diversity Movement, bringing you Queer views and mental health advocacy, slipping in a lot of non-bookish content, and spreading reading to the goddamn world! :) (All posts may contain Amazon links, which are affiliate, unless marked otherwise. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. USA ONLY - please do not make UK purchases with my links)
Sunday 12 March 2017
Friday 10 March 2017
Friday Fics Fix - Ladies' Choice
Shall we continue to change the world my nerdlets? Well I have a fab fic for you that takes us another inch towards doing just that.
This is Marvel (again... I really need to find some good fics from other fandoms!) and includes our dear Black Widow teaching Captain America about feminism.
Thursday 9 March 2017
Comics Wrap-Up - Logan's Run
Film Trailers
Ryan Reynolds, king of the Deadpool fandom, has released a sneak-peak teaser type-thingummy/featurette of Deadpool 2!
As this is Deadpool, beware of swearing, violence, gore, and brief nudity!
Wednesday 8 March 2017
Month in Review(s) - February 2017
February. The shortest of months, and the one with Valentine's Day crammed into the middle there.
Which may explain why four of the 5 books I reviewed this month were romances - guess it even got to yours truly! (I'm not going all soft on you though, dearest nerdlets, I'm still your Rebel Valentine! Lol.)
Labels:
contemporary,
diversity,
everyday life,
F/F,
fantasy,
fiction,
LGBTQ+,
M/F,
M/M,
M/M/F,
new adult/na,
paranormal,
review,
romance,
short stories,
urban fantasy,
wrap-up
Tuesday 7 March 2017
Micropoetry - February 2017
You know the drill by now - and if you don't, here's the low-down:
I write micropoetry on Twitter and once a month I put it all together in a wrap-up post :) Got that? Awesome! On to the poetry!
I write micropoetry on Twitter and once a month I put it all together in a wrap-up post :) Got that? Awesome! On to the poetry!
Sunday 5 March 2017
Nerd Church - Dear Toxic Masculinity: We Need To Talk
(Warning: this post contains fast-moving and jerky/not-smooth-moving gifs which may cause problems for people with photosensitive conditions such as migraine or epilepsy.)
Dear Toxic Masculinity (including mansplaining and general overly-macho culture):
We need to talk. You need to listen.
Maybe we should've sat you down before now, but in our defence, you tend to get a bit... shout-y, stab-y, and murder-y, whenever we try.
You also have a habit of throwing things; and we don't like getting hit by those things.
But we can't just let you carry on your merry way as if that's ok. It would be - but you keep f**king with everyone else's day, and we kind of don't want you to.
So how about this? You don't have to be the best, the strongest, or the most aggressive. It just makes you come across as a douche.
You certainly don't have to mark yourself out on a 'manly' scale. We believe you're a dude. Honestly. There's no need to prove it.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: stop mansplaining.
When you feel like mansplaining things to me, it's often because you've assumed my opinion must be based on misunderstanding.
I'm smart. Ok? Many women (and other non-males) are. Men don't have the monopoly on brains.
So, when you feel the need to explain politics or book plots to me? 9 times out of 10, I already get it. I just disagree with you. Because I have my own opinions.
And when I talk to you condescendingly, you get pi**ed off. And that's hysterical. Because dude, THAT IS WHAT YOU JUST DID TO ME.
Just because I disagree with you, doesn't mean I'm stupid.
This is most apparent when it comes to politics. Young ladies don't know a thing about politics, do they?
Well, f**k that b**lsh** my dears.
I can easily wrap my head around things like equality, devolution, the European Union, and the constitution.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: get over yourself.
No-one's going to force you to be feminine, or wear make-up, or kiss boys.
You can do all that stuff if you want to - but we're not going to force you.
It's your narrow view of the world that is being pushed on everyone else.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: stop burying your head in the sand.
You see problems like rape culture and far-right extremism, and pretend it's not your fault.
No honey, it is.
If you hadn't raised your sons to see women as objects, to see themselves as superior, to be aggressive in order to be 'manly' enough for you, the problem wouldn't be anywhere near as large as it is. And bigger isn't better.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: feminism is needed.
Stop telling us to be grateful. Stop telling us we need to be better in order to match up to you. Stop having to be reminded of female relatives when you need to see women as people.
Get your own sh** in order. Because women have to work double to get half the credit.
And that counts even more so for queer women, women of colour, disabled women, etc.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: stop disbelieving the truth.
You want an example of sexism in the 21st Century?
I have been told I can't review comics because I'm a woman.
I have had rape threats from trolls.
I have been groped by wandering hands, and leered at in the street.
You want an example of sexism in the 21st Century?
Look up feminism on Twitter, and watch the trolls. They are vile.
You want an example of sexism in the 21st Century?
The USA has Donald Trump - a man who brags about sexual assault, makes sexist comments constantly, and has had rape allegations against him - as its president.
The far more qualified woman who stood against him was summarily belittled and discriminated against.
WHETHER YOU AGREE WITH HER POLITICS OR NOT, HILLARY CLINTON WAS MORE QUALIFIED THAN TRUMP.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: just listen for once.
I know it's not your strong point, but in running head-first into danger, you are dragging us all with you. You are hurting us. You are killing us.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: we don't make this stuff up for fun.
Accept that your way of life is not the only way. Accept that you don't have to be a douche.
Accept that other people have the same rights as you.
Accept there's more than one way to be a man. Accept that female doesn't mean lesser.
And maybe there'll be hope for you after all.
Dear Toxic Masculinity (including mansplaining and general overly-macho culture):
We need to talk. You need to listen.
Maybe we should've sat you down before now, but in our defence, you tend to get a bit... shout-y, stab-y, and murder-y, whenever we try.
You also have a habit of throwing things; and we don't like getting hit by those things.
But we can't just let you carry on your merry way as if that's ok. It would be - but you keep f**king with everyone else's day, and we kind of don't want you to.
So how about this? You don't have to be the best, the strongest, or the most aggressive. It just makes you come across as a douche.
You certainly don't have to mark yourself out on a 'manly' scale. We believe you're a dude. Honestly. There's no need to prove it.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: stop mansplaining.
When you feel like mansplaining things to me, it's often because you've assumed my opinion must be based on misunderstanding.
I'm smart. Ok? Many women (and other non-males) are. Men don't have the monopoly on brains.
So, when you feel the need to explain politics or book plots to me? 9 times out of 10, I already get it. I just disagree with you. Because I have my own opinions.
And when I talk to you condescendingly, you get pi**ed off. And that's hysterical. Because dude, THAT IS WHAT YOU JUST DID TO ME.
Just because I disagree with you, doesn't mean I'm stupid.
This is most apparent when it comes to politics. Young ladies don't know a thing about politics, do they?
Well, f**k that b**lsh** my dears.
I can easily wrap my head around things like equality, devolution, the European Union, and the constitution.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: get over yourself.
No-one's going to force you to be feminine, or wear make-up, or kiss boys.
You can do all that stuff if you want to - but we're not going to force you.
It's your narrow view of the world that is being pushed on everyone else.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: stop burying your head in the sand.
You see problems like rape culture and far-right extremism, and pretend it's not your fault.
No honey, it is.
If you hadn't raised your sons to see women as objects, to see themselves as superior, to be aggressive in order to be 'manly' enough for you, the problem wouldn't be anywhere near as large as it is. And bigger isn't better.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: feminism is needed.
'Feminism is needed.' Click to Tweet.
Stop telling us to be grateful. Stop telling us we need to be better in order to match up to you. Stop having to be reminded of female relatives when you need to see women as people.
Get your own sh** in order. Because women have to work double to get half the credit.
And that counts even more so for queer women, women of colour, disabled women, etc.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: stop disbelieving the truth.
You want an example of sexism in the 21st Century?
I have been told I can't review comics because I'm a woman.
I have had rape threats from trolls.
I have been groped by wandering hands, and leered at in the street.
You want an example of sexism in the 21st Century?
Look up feminism on Twitter, and watch the trolls. They are vile.
You want an example of sexism in the 21st Century?
The USA has Donald Trump - a man who brags about sexual assault, makes sexist comments constantly, and has had rape allegations against him - as its president.
The far more qualified woman who stood against him was summarily belittled and discriminated against.
WHETHER YOU AGREE WITH HER POLITICS OR NOT, HILLARY CLINTON WAS MORE QUALIFIED THAN TRUMP.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: just listen for once.
I know it's not your strong point, but in running head-first into danger, you are dragging us all with you. You are hurting us. You are killing us.
Dear Toxic Masculinity: we don't make this stuff up for fun.
Accept that your way of life is not the only way. Accept that you don't have to be a douche.
Accept that other people have the same rights as you.
Accept there's more than one way to be a man. Accept that female doesn't mean lesser.
And maybe there'll be hope for you after all.
Like this post? Try these:
- Nerd Church - SHE is NOT on trial here!
- Nerd Church - Rebel Valentine
- Nerd Church - The Age of Media
- Nerd Church - Transgender People, and Public Toilets
Friday 3 March 2017
Friday Fics Fix - John's Suit
Last week, I brought you an #ownvoices fanfic about a transgender Loki - this week, I bring you an #ownvoices fanfic about a transgender John Watson.
What's also interesting about this fic is that it pairs John with Jim Moriarty.
Reflection by ChosenOfAshursha
Enjoy! I'll be back to save the world, one fic at a time, next week!
Like this post? Try these:
See? Fanfiction gives me hope for the future of this bizarre little planet.
We need fic-writers; they are the future.
(Fangirling note: #ownvoices is a movement where stories about marginalised groups are written by members of that marginalised group.)
'We need fic-writers; they are the future'. Click to Tweet
This is a short fic about John getting ready to go out on a date, and being unhappy about the way his suit fits.
The perspective of a transgender man is not one we get to see from often, and, my dear nerdlets, it's a perspective that's well worth hearing.
What's also interesting about this fic is that it pairs John with Jim Moriarty.
Maybe that's not that interesting to any non-Sherlockians among you, but I can safely say that this is one of the less common pairings in Sherlock fanfiction.
Right, I can't really say much more, because it's so short I'll end up with spoilerage everywhere. And that just gets messy.
But it's interesting, well-written, and well worth the read.
Warning: there are homophobic and transphobic slurs mentioned in the text.
This week's fic then is:
Reflection by ChosenOfAshursha
Enjoy! I'll be back to save the world, one fic at a time, next week!
Like this post? Try these:
- Friday Fics Fix - Loki's Heart
- Friday Fics Fix - Resist, Persist
- Friday Fics Fix - I Think You're My Best Friend
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